If you’re as much of a Grey’s Anatomy fan as I am, I’m sure you’ll recognize the title words of this post. Nobody knows where they might end up – I believe this can resonate with people of any age group, but particularly college students. College can be one of the most exciting, challenging, and stressful times in one’s life. The pressure to succeed and be on the “right” path can be overbearing. We may make mistakes and find our lives to be totally different from what we planned or expected.
So sit down, take a few deep breaths, and listen to me when I say that everything is going to be okay. It is more than acceptable for your plans for your time in college to not turn out as you had anticipated.
Let me tell you a bit about myself. I have always wanted to be a veterinarian, and a variety of internships and volunteer experiences throughout high school to the present have solidified my desire to follow that career path. I began my freshman year at UConn as a dedicated student ready to take on any challenge – I was my high school class salutatorian, had a strong work ethic, and was totally sure nothing was going to get in the way of graduating early and attending veterinary school. As I continued through college, I started losing motivation and began more tangibly struggling with mental illness. Time flew by and before I knew it I was placed on academic probation in the Spring of 2015. I felt lost and devastated; I feared that I had completely jeopardized my future career and goals. Fast-forward to the present: I made the Dean’s List in the Fall 2015 semester, I retook some classes to improve my GPA, and I have postponed my veterinary school applications until the next cycle. As a senior graduating in December, these and other experiences along with the support of my advisors, professors, and friends have truly shown me that it is okay to be on a different path than your original intentions, as long as Continue reading →
“Enjoy it, your next four years are going to be the best years of your life.”
I’m sure we’re all familiar with that line by now. For some of us, it was one of the main reasons we were so excited to graduate high school and move on to the next step. For others, it was the driving force behind all of those sleepless nights filled with partying and friends. In my case, for a while every time I heard that line it would only instill a sense of fear of what’s to come after college and everything downhill from there. Luckily, I’ve come to the realization that accepting college as my peak is simply pathetic.
I’m not saying that these college years can’t be your best – far from it actually – all I’m saying is that these have been the best years of my life SO FAR. The memories that I have created at UConn will carry on with me for the rest of my life and even though UConn has given me five amazing years, I can’t wait to see what’s to come. This school has taught me so much, like the fact I’m not a morning person and to not trust anyone who tells you they’re your “best friend” on a Thursday night at Huskies, but most importantly it has taught me who I really am and who I want to become.
So many people think that as soon as you graduate, life is over. From that moment on it’s only bills, mortgage, and a boring job, but that’s so far from the truth. Life is just beginning. If I were to give any advice to the incoming class it would be to start looking at college as a stepping-stone to your ultimate goal. Whether you want to become a middle school teacher, travel the world, find the cure for every imaginable disease or all of the above, college is just one step in that journey. During your time in college you’ll have the training wheels bolted on your bike, but as soon as you walk that stage with a degree in hand it’ll be time to start pedaling.
Don’t worry; you haven’t hit your peak yet. You’re not even close. You have the rest of your life ahead and it all begins on graduation day. At that point it’ll be time to go. Time to do. Time to pedal.
I am currently a senior getting ready to graduate. I think I needed to have my life figured out by the time I graduate. But now here I am not knowing which path to go. I need to have a full time position lined up for after May! Right?…….. Wrong!
The correct thought process
I know I am not alone in this. This is a very common thought most college students and most seniors experience. But I have realized that this is the wrong way of thinking. You did not fail at life if you do not already have a job lined up. Don’t stress! You’re not alone and you will find a job. After talking to advisers, professors, friends, family, and some mentors I have figured out a few steps to follow in order to land a job; and the deadline of May (by graduation) is not one of them!
Step away from UConn but keep the family
Fellow seniors, and other undergrads: don’t be scared to step away from UConn. We all love UConn and the years we’ve spent and shared here! But it’s our time to move forward and find what or where the next chapter of our lives will be. However, keep in mind just because your graduating does not mean you need to close the door and can’t look back. Keep in contact with those at UConn who you saw as mentors or that you were close with. There are plenty of ways to stay involved on whatever level you want. Your time here as a student is over but you will always be an alum and Continue reading →
“I can no other answer make but thanks, and thanks; and ever thanks.”
As graduation creeps up quickly there is much to reflect upon as I look back on the treasurable time spent here at the University of Connecticut. The sparks of excitement in finding a newer path of life sometimes are engulfed by the fear of leaving behind UConn’s magnificent walls. I have been shaped and guided by many friends, family members, and professors in this important time of my life. To each that have prepared me for my future, I would like to say thank you.
Thank you to my loving parents and family who have supported me from the beginning. Thank you for helping me financially, to peruse my career and never doubting what I can do. I am grateful for being loved so deeply and given every opportunity I can reach. From them I have learned to love myself and have confidence in myself that I can make a difference in this world. I am thankful for the friends that have stuck by me through the years of school and always have been there for advice and a helping hand. And to the many new friends I have made here at UConn, I thank you tremendously. We have stuck together through an array of courses and have accomplished so much together. I thank all of you for making the transition to UConn so positive and smooth. I also give my thanks to the College of Agriculture, Health and Natural Resources and the Ambassador program. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to represent the college and meet a variety of prospective students and wonderful faculty. The networking and training provided has shaped me to become a better student and I thank you for Continue reading →
With graduation right around the corner, it’s starting to get very real that our undergraduate careers are nearly over. Despite the constant warnings from family that college would fly by, it didn’t change the fact that it did. If you’re like me, you tried to make the most of your time at this amazing university; nevertheless, there are always those quick moments, such as after a long day of writing a paper or during a difficult exam that you wished the time in school away. As we look towards the next chapter, it might seem as if the best years of our lives are now behind us. However, you cannot buy into that myth! Of course, everyone knows college is an awesome opportunity, one where you can try out new things at any time and meet people just by walking out of your dormitory door. Before we don our caps and gowns to join our friends in celebrating great memories and new beginnings, we should take a moment to appreciate the wonderful school we’ve attended the past few years. Nevertheless, our time spent as undergraduates cannot be used to define some peak in our lives, as it is just a stepping stone to much greater heights.
What lies ahead will be different from what we’re used to, yet whether we head towards Continue reading →
Starting out freshman year I thought that four years was a long time and that I had everything figured out. Now at the end of my senior year at UConn, I can say that time flew and I learned a lot more “life lessons” that I expected; some of which I would like to pass on to you.
Live in the moment
College is going to fly by and before you know you will be studying for your last undergraduate exam. Is that exciting? Of course! But it’s all too easy to rush through things to get your to-do list done and survive a semester. Take some time to appreciate where you are and pay a little more attention to what you are doing. Put down the phone and enjoy just hanging out with your friends. Live in the moment and seize the day!
Caution when taking advice
Some of the best classes I have taken here at UConn were the ones my classmates said “That class is so hard, don’t take it.” Classes go differently for a lot of people and someone’s worst class may be your best class, but you will never know until you try it out. Instead of taking their advice as fact, try it for yourself. And the opposite holds true as well. Trust me, when someone says, “That class is easy,” don’t write it off or you will learn the hard way not to…
Expect the ups and downs
As much as I hate to admit it, getting your undergraduate degree isn’t the constant party that the movies make it out to be. There will be Continue reading →
With only a month remaining in my last semester as a University of Connecticut undergraduate, I have found myself reflecting over the past four years. I have met so many people – professors, mentors, advisors, friends…And along the way, I have picked up various bits of advice. With graduation nearing, my mind has been focusing mainly on post-graduation wisdom. I want to share three pieces of advice in particular that have been resonating with me lately. This is mainly geared towards graduating seniors, but any undergraduate student can take this advice to heart!
1. Take Advantage of Your Networks
As a soon-to-be graduate of the University of Connecticut, I will have one of the nation’s largest alumni networks at my disposal! By taking full advantage of the UConn Alumni Network and social media websites like LinkedIn, connect with University alumni. Do not be afraid to reach out to alumni involved in fields that interest you to ask them to share career stories with you, successes, challenges, and passions. Chances are you will connect with a like-minded University of Connecticut Husky and establish a valuable, professional network.
2. Don’t Be Discouraged
My parents have told me time and time again to not become anxious, upset or discouraged if my persistence during the search for a job is not immediately or ever rewarded. While it can be Continue reading →
When people hear you want to work with animals, most reply with “so you want to be a vet?” Somehow we have been led to believe that becoming a veterinarian is the only way to work with animals as a professional. As I write this entry, I can sit back and be glad that I never hit that “send” button on my vet school application. What I am doing now is much better suited to my personality, learning style, and interests than veterinary medicine ever could be. I am a graduate student at Purdue University in Animal Behavior and Welfare, and I’m loving every minute of it!
Graduate School is a pleasant change from undergrad when it comes to classes. Undergrad classes, especially those in the sciences, have a tendency for dependence on rogue memorization and learning facts. While that may be necessary when developing knowledge on a certain topic, it was not my favorite way to learn. I prefer the analytical style of graduate school classes. I am no longer simply learning information, but analyzing what things mean and how research findings can be applied in theory and principle. For the most part, this also means less homework and tests, and more of a focus on understanding and analysis.
I also prefer the way time is split in graduate school compared to undergrad. When I applied to Purdue, I was lucky enough to get a research assistantship, meaning I spend half of my time in class and the other half doing research. In undergrad I had to spend most of my time studying, and on an awkward schedule around when I had other classes. Now, because I spend half of my time in research, I only have to take 2 classes per semester. Not only does this Continue reading →
Let’s face it…filling out an application to get into graduate school feels like high school all over again. Will I get in? What if I don’t get in? Should I fix my essay? Are my grades good enough?
After going through the entire application process, I’ve decided to highlight the most important parts of the application. My goal is to help every UConn CAHNR student looking into graduate school to use these ten tips to have a stand-out application. There is also an extended version for anyone interested in a particular topic! I used these tips in my graduate school application and it led to my acceptance into UConn’s Doctor of Physical Therapy (DPT) program.
Boost your GPA
My tips: Research the average GPA for accepted students at the graduate programs you are thinking about applying to in the future. If you are worried about your GPA, put the effort in to improve the rest of your application (including ALL the parts of this Top 10 list). And remember, be confident…you are at UConn because you are smart enough and worked hard to get here!
Going into college I thought that the most important decisions to make would surround research opportunities, internships, grades, and anything else that would allow my resume to shine next to any other recent graduate. Now as senior, I realize that joining UConn Endurance was the best decision I made in college, and will be the thing I miss the most upon graduating. UConn Endurance is a non-competitive running club on campus. Yes, we run far (mostly half and full marathons – that’s 13.1 and 26.2 miles respectively), but the club is really all about making friends from running and raising money for charity in the process. And boy did I make friends. Through UConn Endurance Continue reading →